Are ‘90 Day Fiance’ Stars Josh and Lily Still Together?

Lily revealed that she and Josh called it quits after 10 months of marriage in a TikTok video shared in November 2024. “Hello everyone. Let me introduce you. This is my husband,” she wrote over several photos of her and Josh. “But from now on he is my ex.”

“Unfortunately, he became my ex because he can no longer enjoy the wonderful life I provided for him,” she added.

While Lily did not reveal the exact reason behind their split, she did imply that it was Josh’s decision. “These photos were taken by my husband when he lived in China. From now on, he is my ex and I want to start deleting many beautiful photos of us together on my phone! I really don’t want to delete many photos! Such sadness,” she wrote.

She went on to sarcastically thank Josh for “intruding into my once beautiful life.” Lily continued, “Thank you for shattering all my beautiful dreams! Thank you for breaking my heart.”

Earlier that month. Josh and Lily are still together as of filming the 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way season tell-all.

During the special, Josh appeared in the studio in New York City. He had returned to the United States from China for family events but admitted that he missed his life with Lily. The couple shared an update with fans about their life after marriage, revealing that while there have been happy moments, their relationship has largely been challenging.

How Did ‘90 Day Fiance’ Stars Josh and Lily Meet?

Josh and Lily met while using a language-learning app. Sparks flew and they fell in love, and the pair even got married before making their reality TV debut. It’s not currently clear when they tied the knot.

‘90 Day Fiance’ Star Josh Relocated to China to Live With Lily

In a teaser clip for the season 6 premiere on July 1, 2024, Josh explained that he recently quit his job in the United States so that he could move to China.

“I am on a spousal visa,” he explained in a confessional. “After five years, I can request a 10-year resident visa. But until I have that, I am not allowed to legally work.”

While speaking to a friend about being unable to work while lounging in a hot tub, Josh explained that Lily was not bothered about him not being able to financially provide for their family. “It bothers me,” he admitted. “I’ve always worked and I want to feel like I can contribute and not be a deadbeat.”

He then pointed out that it’s more common for men to work in China than for women to be the breadwinners. “So she’ll get judged or they’ll judge me,” Josh told his friend.

“It’s probably very odd that, you know, this white guy coming to China, speaking English and doesn’t work while the wife does,” he continued in a confessional. “And I’m going to need to rely on Lily a hundred percent to pay for things for language translation. You know, she’s gonna be the only person I have, so it’s not an easy feeling.

Not only was Josh concerned about not being able to work, but he also wondered why Lily would want to be with him. “I’m not George Clooney and I am gonna wonder,” he said. “Why does a woman like Lily want to be with a man like me and support me financially? And there is that fear that I’m gonna wake up one day and Lily’s gonna say, ‘I don’t want to be with you.’”

After a few days in China, Josh grew uneasy with his wife being the breadwinner of their home and realized the costs of their second wedding ceremony were slowly piling up.

The pair also realized they seemingly had different motivations for wanting to host another ceremony. The U.S. native explained that their first wedding was just the two of them, and Lily wanted her family to be part of the celebration. In contrast, Lily stated that it was Josh who wished to experience a traditional Chinese ceremony.

Josh later met Lily’s sister, who was concerned about him not being able to provide for her sibling. Though she liked Josh, she was concerned about the possibility of him not being able to work and asked what he would do if he couldn’t provide for Lily.

90 Day Fiance’s Josh Told Lily to Cancel Their Wedding

Less than two hours before their wedding ceremony was slated to begin, Josh told Lily to cancel the nuptials. “Today’s the day of our wedding, but I really don’t know if this is going to happen,” Josh admitted in a confessional during the September 8, 2024, episode.

Their guests were scheduled to arrive at the venue within two hours before Josh announced that he was having second thoughts.

“I’m so sad. I’m angry,” Lily said in a confessional before the clip cut to her saying she felt “so bad” after Josh made the comment.

The drama only continued when the pair realized they had a final balance to pay off once they arrived at the venue. The balance needed to be paid in full to move forward with the wedding, and while Josh was prepared to use a credit card, he was uncertain if it would be approved since he was outside the United States.

“If this card does not go through, just because of traveling out of the country, do you have a card that will work?” Josh asked his future wife, who said she didn’t. “I just hate to see this all fall apart”

Lily was nervous that she would have to cancel the wedding, adding, “I will definitely feel very disappointed and down. I will feel very embarrassed and unable to face my family and friends.”

Unfortunately, Josh’s cards didn’t work in China, but Lily was able to obtain a last-minute loan to pay off their wedding.

Did ‘90 Day Fiance’ Stars Josh and Lily Get Married?

Despite some bumps along the way, Josh and Lily made it down the aisle, with their wedding documented during episode 20 of 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way season 6.