[Warning: The following contains MAJOR spoilers for 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way Season 9 Episode 14.]

During Episode 13 of The Other Way, 90 Day Fiancé newbie Greta Lin told viewers that she came to England looking for the Mr. Darcy to her Elizabeth Bennett. However, now that we’ve reached the end of Episode 14, which premiered on December 8, it appears that Greta and her fiancé, Matthew, are headed most ardently to Splitsville.

Before we break down Greta and Matthew’s heartbreaking split, let’s look back at when we met them. Season 7 of 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way introduced viewers to Greta, a 27-year-old animal lover and lawyer from Norman, Oklahoma, and Matthew, a 26-year-old finance bro and self-proclaimed nerd from Market Harborough, England, after the duo bonded initially over their veganism. So, she traveled to live with Matthew in England, even though it meant leaving her beloved cat, Hazel, back in the States for the time being. While the couple originally appeared to be one of the strongest of the bunch, a stark disagreement about family plans caused their strong foundation to crumble.

Scroll to find out everything you need to know about the season’s most quirky couple, including if they are still together after Greta’s shocking breakdown, how they met, and where they stand now.

Are Greta and Matthew still together?

As of Episode 14, Greta and Matthew appear to have broken up, but that doesn’t mean Matthew won’t continue to fight for their relationship. After less than a week together, Greta called things off, telling Matthew she hadn’t felt a spark in quite a while. He admitted, “Nothing in the world could have prepared me for those words. You don’t just suddenly not love someone. These things build up over time. And I had no idea it was building up. All this time.” She later returned his engagement ring.

While Greta and Matthew shared a less dramatic split than 90 Day fans are used to, it was hard not to get choked up while watching the couple say their goodbyes. Namely, when Matthew pointed out that they had spent little time together in England without the cameras. He whispered, “We’ve only seen each other with a camera crew around us.” In response, Greta told him, “It doesn’t have to do with the cameras.” His response? “For me, it does.” Where’s a tissue when you need it!

Episode 13 began with Greta calling her friend, revealing, “For the past six months, we did not feel very connected, and there was definitely a decline in the relationship. So, I started to wonder if he isn’t my person.” Later, Greta told Matthew about her concerns during a very clear “we need to talk” conversation.

She told him, “I feel really guilty. I think you’re like one of the greatest people I’ve ever met, but I don’t really think I’m being very fair to you at all. And, I’m just so, so grateful I met you. You deserve the world, and you deserve to be really happy, and you deserve to be with someone who loves you to the most that their heart can handle, and who reciprocates your affection and appreciates what an amazing partner you are.” That was when she dropped the biggest bombshell of the season so far: “The honest truth is, I don’t think I love you anymore.” Oof!

Ahead of their emotional conversation, Greta and Matthew had seen their fair share of challenging moments throughout their limited time living together. During Episode 10, Greta continued to discuss her concerns about her relationship with Matthew, explaining, “Since I arrived in England, things have been up and down. It feels like Matthew and I are on different pages about everything, like money, where we’re going to live, and the future. It’s been a bumpy start.”

While Greta and Matthew haven’t officially split yet, it’s hard to foresee them coming back from “I don’t love you anymore” in the upcoming episodes.